If you’re a new mother, you may have heard a lot of advice from well-intended family and friends. They might share helpful tips like “sleep when the baby sleeps” or “learn how to do everything one-handed.” Unfortunately, one thing that many parents hear from well-intended bystanders is that it’s normal for breastfeeding to hurt.
It can be incredibly disheartening if you and your infant are facing challenges with nursing, and despite what others may have told you, persistent discomfort is not the norm. The truth is that many feeding issues are often linked to your little one’s oral health. Continue reading to learn more about 3 myths about breastfeeding and how your child’s pediatric dentist can potentially support your efforts!
Myth #1: It’s Normal to Have Bleeding
Many mothers struggle with learning how to nurse their new babies, so if you’re having issues, you’re not alone. There’s a commonly held perception that it’s normal for your nipples to hurt, crack, or even bleed and that you need to give yourself time to toughen up. While it’s not uncommon to experience some initial soreness when you first begin to breastfeed your child, it shouldn’t be persistent or last for long periods.
In many cases, the pain is symptomatic of a larger underlying issue. If your little one is having a hard time latching, for example, then they must work harder to get the milk they need. Often, a tongue or lip tie hinders them from forming a firm enough suction against your skin. Their dentist can easily detach the bit of connective material with a soft laser tissue in a procedure called a frenectomy.
Myth #2: Your Child is Lazy
If your infant tends to fall asleep at your breast, you might worry that they’re not getting all the nutrients they need. It’s unfortunate, but some might encourage you to write it off as an overly sleepy or lazy child.
However, if your newborn struggles to latch on correctly, then they’re forced to exert more effort to get the same nourishment as a baby that has no problem with it. That means they’re working harder and may tire themselves out faster. They might not have the energy capacity to finish feeding if a tongue or lip-tie is holding them back.
Myth #3: The Frenulum Will Stretch in Time
Tongue- and lip-ties occur when a small bit of connective tissue (frenulum) either under your child’s tongue or in their gums, usually above their front two teeth, is overly attached. This can anchor their tongue or lips so that their movement is restricted. Many well-wishers will tell you that this frenulum will stretch out on its own over time, but that’s not the case.
Your pediatric dentist can sever the tie with a soft-tissue laser that doesn’t cause any lasting discomfort or bleeding. That way, your newborn can have a fuller range of motion and can more easily latch when breastfeeding.
If you’re unsure whether your infant has a tongue or lip tie, a simple consultation with their dentist can tell you. If that is the issue, a simple fix can allow you to return to nursing your baby without any aches!
About the Author
Dr. Ryne Paulson and his family have helped three generations of families in central Wyoming build and maintain happy, healthy smiles. He earned his undergraduate degree in Biology from the University of Wyoming and then his Doctor of Dental Surgery from Creighton University in Omaha, NE. Now, he offers a full array of services to meet the unique needs of still-developing smiles under one roof. If you’re struggling to nurse your child and suspect a lip or tongue tie is getting in the way, you can request an appointment on the website or by calling (307) 266-1997.